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Matthew 18

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Matthew 18

Learning humility and forgiveness

The Most Important Disciple

1That’s the same time the disciples went to Jesus and asked him, “Which one of us is most important in the kingdom of heaven?” [1]

2Jesus invited a child to come over to him. He put the child in front of the disciples. 3Then Jesus said, “I’m telling you the truth. If you don’t change and become like children, you’re never going to make it into the kingdom of heaven. 4You’ve got to become as humble as this little child if you want to become greatest in the kingdom of heaven. 5Anyone who welcomes a little child like this because of me, welcomes me.

6“Take a look at these little kids who believe in me. I’ll tell you something about anyone who convinces little children like this to sin. People like that would be better off thrown into the sea with one of those grain-grinding millstones tied around their neck.

If It Tempts You to Sin, Cut It Out of Your Life

7“How tragic it’s going to be for this world because of the way it lures people into sin. It’s inevitable. Sin is going to happen. But how tragic it’s going to be for the people who cause it. 8If your hand or your foot is what makes you sin, cut it off and throw the thing away. [2] It’s better to go one-handed into eternal life [3] than two-fisted into hellfire. [4] And it’s better to go crippled into eternal life than dancing into hellfire. 9If your eye makes you sin, cut it out and throw it away. It’s better to go into eternal life with one eye than to get thrown into hellfire and see what that’s like with both eyes.

10“Listen to me. Don’t look down on any of these children as though you’re more important than they are. I’m telling you, their angels in heaven have direct access to my Father all the time. 11The Son of Humans has come on a search-and-rescue mission, to save those who are lost. [5]

The Sheep That Got Away

12“May I ask you something? Let’s say a man has a flock of 100 sheep, and one sheep wanders off. Wouldn’t you expect the man to leave those 99 sheep on the hillside and go looking for the one that wandered away? 13And if he found it, I’m telling you he’ll celebrate more over that one sheep than over all the 99 that didn’t wander off. 14In the same way, your Father in heaven doesn’t want anyone to get lost and die.

When Someone Does You Wrong

15“If someone close to you hurts you in some way, go and talk to the person about it—only the two of you. If the person listens, great; you’ve restored the relationship. 16If the person won’t listen to you, try again. This time, take one or two others with you. That way you’ll have two or three witnesses to confirm every detail of what happened.

17“If the person still won’t listen, take the problem to the full group. [6] And if the person won’t listen to even the full group, call it quits. Just start treating that person like a stranger you don’t want anything to do with—like an atheist or a tax collector.

The Power of Agreement

18“I’m telling you the truth, if you forbid something here on earth, it’s going to be forbidden in heaven too. And whatever you allow on earth, it’s going to be allowed in heaven. 19If two of you agree about something that you want my Father to do for you, he’ll do it. And that’s the truth. 20When two or three people get together on my behalf, I’m right there with them.”

Never Stop Forgiving

21Peter went to Jesus and asked, “Teacher, when someone [7] close to me does something that hurts me, how many times do I have to forgive that person? As many as seven times, perhaps?”

22Jesus said, “I’m not going to tell you it’s as many as seven times. I’m telling you it’s as many as seventy times seven.

The Unforgiving Debtor

23“The kingdom of heaven can be illustrated this way. A king decided to collect the money that people owed him. 24One man owed him the equivalent of 375 tons of silver (340 metric tons). [8] 25The man couldn’t repay the debt. So the king ordered that the man’s assets be liquidated. The man and his wife and his children and everything they owned would be sold to cover the debt.

26“The man dropped flat on his face in front of the king and said, ‘Please be patient with me. I’ll pay you everything I owe.’ 27This request touched the king. He freed the man and canceled his debt.

28“That same man decided to collect some debts of his own. He found one man who owed him less than one pound of silver (390 grams). [9] He grabbed the man by the throat and started choking him and yelling, ‘Pay me what you owe me!’

29“The man fell to the ground and started begging, ‘Please have patience with me and I’ll pay you back what I owe you.’

30“But the man demanding his money refused the request. He threw the other man in prison and intended to keep him there until the debt was paid. 31When others saw what this man had done, they were furious. They went to the king and told him what had happened.

32“The king called the man back and said, ‘How wicked can you get? I canceled your debt for you because you asked me to. 33Shouldn’t you have shown a little mercy to that other guy, like I did for you?’ 34The king handed that man over to the prison guards and ordered them to torture him until the debt was paid in full.

35“That’s what my heavenly Father will do to you if you don’t sincerely forgive those who are close to you.” [10]

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