The Hebrew word for “disgusting” is ʽerwâ. It can refer to many kinds of complaints. The woman might be sexually unfaithful, indecent, dishonorable, sexually unsatisfying, ugly, mean, nagging. Just about any husband or wife could probably continue this list for quite a while. But we get the point. In Hebrew, the setup for that word is a phrase that lawyers in ancient times used when they drew up contracts or formal complaints. The phrase is “He finds [fill in the complaint] about her. In this case, the fill in the blank is “something indecent” or “something obnoxious” or any other similar complaint based on the original Hebrew word. In the time of Jesus, Jews were split over how to interpret this. Some taught that a man could divorce a woman for any complaint. Others taught that the “indecency” intended referred to infidelity. Jesus rocked both boats when he said God didn’t want husbands and wives to divorce for any reason (Mark 10:9). The implication is that if a marriage was in trouble, the couple needed to figure it out, forgive, and get back to living and loving. Apostle Paul later acknowledged that some marriages can’t be saved. He told women abandoned by their husband that they “should no longer feel obligated to that marriage. God wants us to live in peace” (1 Corinthians 7:15).